One
of the outcomes I treasure most from my PhD was my introduction to cultural
anthropology. I had an academic giant of a supervisor. He allowed me to stand
on his shoulders and get a very different view of the world. He opened my mind
to so many possibilities, particularly what it might mean to be a person. I
explored what factors make people do the things they do, what they believe in and how
their experiences shape the way they behave and interact with others. That
said, I’m not a ‘qualified’ anthropologist.
However,
in our house, I’m the anthropologist, and Jane is the apprentice. It is a long
running private joke that comes partly from the different ways we have of viewing the world. I have a ‘film track’ running in my mind that is constantly fuelled
by observing what is going on around me. Some of the things I see get instantly discarded. There are other things I observe which linger in my mind, and it is these that make me pause, question or reflect. It is
a more nuanced form of ‘people watching’ that exchanges superficial fantasy for
a possible analysis reflecting someone else's reality.
This
way of being, (or rather my way of being), sometimes surfaces in me asking Jane
if she saw, or heard, of felt something I might have just observed. More often
than not she will say no, and I will nearly always respond with ‘well you
are not a trained anthropologist’. And we laugh with each other as we both
know, however much I might posture, neither of us are. Critically, observation is
the key factor in cultural anthropology studies, whether this happens through being as an
active participant, or as a non-participant observer.
Now
during the time Jane has been an inpatient in hospital she appears to have
honed her observation abilities and her anthropological analytical skills too. Last
week, following her successful shunt operation Jane was moved from the high
care ward to a step-down neurological ward. My word what a difference a short
corridor trip can make. Now despite what follows here, Jane continues to make progress,
albeit it slowly. Once again thank you to all the readers of this blog who have
steadfastly supported us both.
So, the spacious 4 bedded high care ward, the calm, and the quiet, has long gone. Replaced instead with an overcrowded (19 beds in a 16 bedded ward), noisy, hot, and often a seemingly chaotic environment. There is little privacy. It took me 3 days to get Jane a bedside cupboard and she is still eating her meals off a tray, on her lap, as she lays in bed. The hospital pharmacy has allegedly been unable to source her medication for over 48 hours. I have now fetched her long term and necessary medication from home.
As bad as some of the conditions are (and I will pursue my concerns somewhere other than in this blog), what is more disheartening are the apparent attitudes of some of the folk working on the ward. For example, Jane, drawing upon her growing anthropological knowledge and skills, observed that none of the doctors caring for her introduced themselves while conducting the daily ward round or when undertaking a procedure. Nearly 12 years after Kate Granger started her #hellomynameis campaign, I found this both sad and hard to accept.
For those readers who don’t know of Kate Granger, she was a medical doctor who was also a patient living with terminal cancer. During her inpatient treatment, she found it frustrating that so many of the health care professionals caring for her failed to introduce themselves. Health care professionals introducing themselves to patients is not just common courtesy, it is something more fundamental. Kate Granger described such simple introductions as the ‘first rung on the ladder to providing truly person-centred, compassionate care’. Absolutely. It is the bedrock upon which effective approaches to active listening and therapeutic conversations can be built.
Please
don’t get the wrong impression. I know, understand, and deal with the extraordinary
pressures facing the NHS every day. The underlying factors causing these pressures
have all been captured many times by folk who can describe them more eloquently
than I will ever be able to do. But for me (and more importantly, for Jane) it’s
just not about poor buildings, aging equipment and a depleted skilled
professional workforce: its the lack of kindness
in human interactions that matters. Kindness always matters and in the health care setting, being kind toward those you are caring for can positively impact upon a persons sense of self and aid their recovery.
Kindness
to others, kinship and relationships have long featured in cultural anthropological
research. Indeed, my PhD examined the professional and non-professional
relationships between GPs in a so-called quasi health care market. Many of the anthropological
studies have consistently noted that the factors that promote and foster
kindness includes providing people with the opportunity to observe kindness of others.
I think that an overcrowded neurological ward, where everyone can observe and
hear the conversations of others, provides a great place to test out this idea.
I don’t read your every blog, but took the time to read this and understand what you and J are going through. A curious mind does not need a PHD ( although recognising a great achievement) but it does need courage to speak out on what is observed. Only then can we improve if on the front line we listen. Thank you Tony and God Bless, May J make a full recovery 🙏
ReplyDeleteI have really enjoyed this blog, it resonates so much with the way I observe the development and behaviour of humans, I constantly analyse and ask “what makes humans, human?”
ReplyDeleteIt saddens and angers me in equal measures that professionals have not introduced themselves to Jane, mainly because it is not unusual and that shouldn’t be so. When I was last in hospital I asked the doctor at my bedside “tell me a bit about yourself.” He told me it wasn’t relevant, to which I replied “it is to me, you haven’t addressed me by name or introduced yourself and you’re about to get intimate with me, you could be anyone!” I said it with a smile and he was lovely, he apologised and the next time I met him he said I had reminded him of the simple things that are so important to patients and said he would never forget my name or that moment. I felt humbled. I am SO pleased that wonderful force of nature that is Jane Warne is continuing to progress 🙏