Sunday, 26 May 2019

A lovely week at the Memory Motel (with apologies to the Rolling Stones)


Last week I attended a commemorative service to mark the second anniversary of the Manchester Arena attack. The service was held in St Anne’s church; an Anglican church that was first dedicated in 1712. It is located in St Anne’s Square, which in the immediate aftermath of the attack provided a place that people from all faith, backgrounds and all parts of the North West could come together to show their solidarity, compassion and hope in the face of such a dreadful event. 22 people lost their lives in the attack and many more were injured, both physically and mentally. This year’s service was more intimate; perhaps because the building was much smaller than Manchester Cathedral, where the first commemorative service was held; perhaps because those attending represented a more local and familiar group of people; and perhaps because over the course of time new relationships and friendships had been formed allowing for a more comfortable sense of being amongst so many other families impacted by the attack. 

The hymns and prayers, readings and music created both a solemn atmosphere and yet also underpinned a sense of hope and optimism for the future. It was a privilege to be part of the remembrance service. In fact, it was a week jam-packed with events that sparked memories. Facebook memories showed me a message I had sent out last year at this time. The poppies in my garden had just come into bloom, a fitting reminder that we wouldn’t ever forget those impacted by the Arena attack.

I also heard of the sad death of Judith Kerr. Her book, the ‘Tiger Who Came To Tea’ was a great favourite of many children and mine were no exception and some of my grandchildren are now beginning to discover it too.  51 years after it was published it still has great appeal, and I even heard a rumour that Channel 4 are making an adaptation of the book for Christmas – watch this space.  

And of course, it has been the RHS Chelsea Flower Show week. I’m from the Alan Titchmarsh era of presenters, and apart from Monty and Joe, the new ones leave me feeling a little old and faded. That said I have absolutely loved and been inspired by the gardens this year. The ‘Manchester Garden’ captured the zeitgeist perfectly – water (canals and the industrial revolution) hexagonal stepping stones representing the worker bee, so closely symbolic of Manchester, and of course the wonderful curving representations of graphene and a glimpse into a future of exciting possibilities. 

The CAMFED garden captured the essence of Zimbabwe perfectly. I have not been to Zimbabwe, but I have been to many countries in Africa and seeing the garden brought back so many wonderful memories of the ingenuity of people overcoming obstacles to achieve good health and wellbeing. It was a brilliant advertisement for the important work of CAMFED and the work they do in supporting girls and women in the poorest rural communities across sub-Saharan Africa. It is through this work that women are transforming communities and are proving to be very effective #differencemakers.

My particular favourite garden was the ‘Walkers Forgotten Quarry Garden’ – those who know me will know why this might be the case. However, the Duchess of Cambridge, Kate Middleton’s ‘Back to Nature Garden’ was said to be the most talked about garden at this year’s show. It was lovely to see her children really enjoying the garden and I guess in a very pressured world, such moments of freedom must have been very precious. I liked Kate’s memory of walking through the bluebell woods as a child with her grandmother. The great thing about her garden (designed with Andree Davis and Adam White) is that it will be will be transplanted (literally) to the Dewnans Centre, part of the Devon Partnership NHS Trust, well at least the plants will be. The Dewnans Centre were the winners in a national competition to rehouse the garden, which involved some 23 NHS trusts nationally (I will have to find out next week if @WWL made an application). 

What makes this an especially good thing to discover this week is that the Dewnans Centre is a 60-bed medium secure unit, which provides a service to support the recovery of some of the most socially disenfranchised people who, in a secure unit, have very limited access to natural habits. When I first came to Manchester in 1984 it was to the Gardener Unit, the only NHS service offering forensic care to adolescents with mental health issues. I went there as part of the commissioning nursing team. The experience was the turning point in my life – moving me from being a goat-keeping, chicken-loving nurse onto a pathway of nursing education and research (although chickens are still an important part of my life). The enclosed gardens (whilst not as grand as Kate's) were an important part of life on the unit – and also at one time, we tried to keep a few hens in one of the gardens. Health and Safety issues made this ultimately sadly impossible. 

Finally, in a week of memory joggers came the news from the online journal, the Rolling Stone. Readers of my age might well remember the original newsprint version of this all things music, media and beyond magazine (TBH the digital version is nothing like the radical and of the moment paper version). In any event they reported last week that the Rolling Stones returned the song writing rights for the 40th most popular song of all time, ‘Bitter Sweet Symphony’ to Richard Ashcroft, lead singer of The Verve. For the past 20 years, they have taken 100% of the royalties for the song after a court case decided that the famous string riff in the song was a sample taken from the Rolling Stones song ‘The Last Time’ without their permission. In my lifetime, I have seen the Rolling Stones in concert six times and have always enjoyed their concerts. At the last one Richard Ashcroft was the supporting act and he was superb – so hats off to the Stones, who after 20 years have done the right thing and booked out of the Memory Motel! 

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