It’s not every day that you come
face to face with your future. More of which later. First, have you ever heard
of Ptolemy? You may not have done to be honest; he was born in 367 BC and can trace
his ancestors back to Hercules. He believed the earth was the centre of the
universe and that the sun, moon and other planets revolved around it. My writing
companion and I wrote a paper way back in 2007 that used this notion to explore
how patients could be used in nurse education – ‘Passive patient or engaged
expert? Using a Ptolemaic approach to enhance mental health nurse education and
practice’. Ptolemy was also influential in helping his mate Pyrrhus regain
his throne in 297 BC. Pyrrhus became king of Epirus (a mountainous region in
Greece) at the age of 13, but was dethroned just 4 years later. Like Ptolemy,
Pyrrhus was a fierce opponent of Rome and the Romans, and fought many battles
against them. One of his most famous was the Battle of Asculum. However, any
celebration of winning this battle was short lived and misplaced due to the
thousands of lives lost. It was a military shambles and gave rise to the term a
Pyrrhic victory.
I remembered this story last
Monday when our so called ‘Freedom Day’ arrived. The Prime Minister who
had, up until fairly recently, been crowing about how we were finally to be
free from over a year of Covid restrictions quietly changed his tone and
message. Monday 19th July became a somewhat Pyrrhic victory in our Government’s
battle against the pandemic. As we now know, the day was marred by soaring
rates of Covid infections, many thousands (millions actually) forced into
isolation because of their contact with someone who had tested positive, food
shortages in some supermarkets and totally incomprehensible Government
guidance. It was no wonder that the Prime Minister abandoned has planned
Churchillian victory speech.
I was just pleased that at the 11th hour we got some sensible and very clear advice from our colleagues in Public
Health England over keeping the Covid restrictions in place in all health care
settings. It remains to be seen how easy that will be to maintain. Over the
past few weeks there have been increasing numbers of patients and visitors who
have stopped wearing masks while in the hospital grounds. There were many
reports of younger adults getting out and about, as dancing and drinking
together was back on the cards. They appear to be the largest group of folk in the population with vaccine hesitancy. It also remains to be seen what impact this
will have on infection rates, hospital admissions and deaths.
Last Thursday J and I experienced
for ourselves what Covid restriction-free life could be like. We were attending
the wedding of one of my nieces near the beautiful town of Frome. They had chosen
a stunning place to have the ceremony and celebrations. Orchardleigh is a 500
acre estate with a wonderful stately home at its heart – see here. We were a
bit nervous about going there and mixing with the other wedding guests, and
upon our arrival kept to mask wearing and socially distancing. It was a
relatively small wedding with just some 40 guests and it soon became evident
that most had no intention of adhering to any sensible precautions. At first it
felt difficult and uncomfortable.
On the map, it looked as if we
were fairly close to Cardiff, where my parents live. That being the case we
thought we might nip across country and pay them a surprise visit. It was a two-hour
journey mainly on small country roads, although crossing the River Severn on
the new Prince of Wales bridge was brilliant. We did eventually arrive, and my
Mum and Dad were surprised and pleased to see us. Like many other older folk,
the loneliness that came as a consequence of the lockdowns and so on has been
hard to bear. Both my parents are now in their 90s and my mother has mobility
problems that mean she often spends many hours each day sitting in an armchair.
She can no longer really tend her garden, which was a big passion of hers, and
seldom travels out of the house. My father is more able and will go out to do
shopping and so on, but is looking frail and vulnerable. He spoke of the
increasing difficulties he has in simply managing the everyday tasks of life.
He is 24 years older than me and looking into his eyes it felt like I was
looking into my future. It was unsettling. However, despite it turning out to
be a tortuous 6.5 hour journey back home, it was worth the effort and we were very
pleased to spend some time with them once more.
There was even a Pyrrhic tale to
be told as well. The last time my mother went to her GP (to be vaccinated) the
nurse noticed her mobility problems and said she would sort something out to
make both her and my Dad’s life easier. After several months’ wait, a vast
number of phone calls and emails, a new wheelchair was finally delivered to
their house. It is a push along kind, which despite my Dad’s best intentions I
think he will struggle with. More importantly it is so heavy, he can’t actually
lift into his car boot. So, it sits, unused and cluttering up his hallway. I
will try and sort things out on Monday, but I imagine Pyrrhus is probably
turning in his grave.