Last night I was at a garden
party to celebrate someone's 50th birthday. I didn't know her, and
apart from my wife and one other person, I didn't know anyone else there either. However, it
was great to meet new people and start new conversations. The party was at the end of a
week during which I took part in and enjoyed, many wonderfully diverse conversations. Some of these conversations were with people I have never met before and in all likelihood will never meet again. Some were in real life and some were
Twitter conversations. Last Thursday evening for example, there was a @wenurse
twitter chat on sexual health, a conversation that lasted an hour and was wide
ranging and informative. If you missed it, the chat can be found here.
Some of those that participated were known to me, but like last night’s party, there
were plenty of people who I didn't know.
Twitter is a strange phenomenon, one
is able to gain a voice in a way that is very powerful and unique. You can
communicate with people who perhaps up to now you wouldn't have been able to
get to. You can also gain the attention of those that otherwise wouldn't want
to speak with you. Last week, I watched with great amusement, which quickly
changed to sheer admiration, as one of my sisters tried to get Virgin Media to
respond to them. Having waited in vain for nearly 2 hours for the Virgin centre
to contact them through a call back phone call, they launched a twitter onslaught
with great effect – 10 minutes later Virgin Media had sorted the problem and
made contact. Of course there are many other service providers who can also
supply you with wi fi services.
Friday morning saw me at
Manchester airport on my way to Dublin for a PhD viva examination. Airports are
a great place to have conversations with people you have never met before, and
so it was last Friday. I don’t usually do breakfast, unless I am
traveling. Then I like a Full English Breakfast (vegetarian). I was seduced
into having breakfast by a young waitress who engaged me in conversation at the
entrance to one of the Terminal 3 restaurants. I should have known that
somewhere professing to do really great pizzas, and pasta, was unlikely to do
equally great breakfasts. It was dreadful, and the conversation as I left was
considerably shorter and less friendly than when I entered the restaurant.
I flew with Ryanair, and I think it’s
possible they train their staff so that all conversations have to include asking you for money. The taxi driver on the other hand was a great
conversationalist. He had an opinion on everything from the weather that
morning, to the Scottish referendum (he would vote NO), and what did I think
about Boris Johnson contesting Nigel Farage in the next general election. I was
surprised at this turn of the conversation as I hadn't picked up on this news.
It turned out that he was talking about the notion that Boris should contest
the by-election in Clacton caused by the Tory MP Douglas Carswell defection to UKIP.
By this time we had reached our
destination, the School of Nursing at Trinity College. Trinity College is a
fascinating place, steeped in history and well worth a visit if you happen to
be there. I was there however, to conduct a PhD viva. As the candidate was a
member of the Schools academic staff, I was 1 of 2 external examiners. I like
to approach PhD viva's as an opportunity for an academic conversation, a chance
for the candidate to present and defend their work, but in a collegiate rather
than adversarial manner. I was pleased to find that my co-external examiner was
like minded.
Now the School of Nursing is not located in the wonderful Trinity College buildings and main campus. The School
is to be found in the rather splendid if somewhat quirky old Gas Building. This protected Art Deco building was originally constructed in 1818, and remodelled
in the Art Deco style in 1934. It is a fantastically well preserved and
interesting building. Its neo-Tudor and jazzy Art Deco styles, side by side to each other in one building
make it one of the finest of its kind in Ireland. Such is the transient nature
of PhD conversations that one can find oneself back in a taxi and on the way to
the airport before being able take any photos. This was my experience, so most of the illustrations in today’s blog come from the Schools web site.
Completely coincidently, my
middle daughter (Sally) who like my eldest son (Samuel), lives in Hastings the
Art Deco capital of New Zealand, is returning to the UK for a brief Art Deco
tour next weekend. I have arranged to meet with her. As my parents will be up visiting as well, I am hoping that this time next
week there will be 4 generations in the house, all holding a conversation with each other. I'm
looking forward to it. As BT once said in their advisements, 'its good to talk'!